Nothing left to her imagination as she has just been told she will be paddle hard, she will cry, and her bottom will be bruised.
There are many signs that demonstrate that a high school girl is learning a lesson during her before, during, and after her paddling. The 1st sign, one that show things are being handled correctly, it that of fear. This is the primary purpose for the buildup leading to a school paddling. It is just not as effective to bring a girl into the office, tell her she was bad, and have her bend over to be paddled. The process leading up to the paddling is just as important and if done correctly, can be provide an experience that she will not want to ever repeat. Anticipation can be used as a powerful learning tool and if done properly, the results will be visible on her face. Many principals make the moments leading up to a school paddling, purposefully long and very drawn out, so she will have a lot of time to consider what is about to happen and how much it will hurt. All of this can be easily emphasized with a few well-chosen sentences. Consider the following statements, fully appropriate for the situation, and how they will affect a young lady’s state of mind prior to her paddling:
-“I find that if I give the maximum amount of swats allowed, it tends to make a longer lasting impression”
-“I will not be doing you any favors if I just give you a moderate paddling, my goal is for you to never return to my office for any disciplinary issues, so I think the hardest paddling I can give will do you the most good”
-“Don’t be so hard on yourself, we will be able to easily correct this by giving your bottom a good bruising”
-“I had the shop teacher create this paddle especially for moments like this, we have tried many designs over the years, but this one has proven to hurt the most”
– “From the look on your face, you seem quite nervous about the paddling you about to receive. This is completely understandable, as this paddling will be delivered in a manner that will make you cry. But don’t worry, I will give you 5-10 minutes afterwards to let you calm down and get your tears under control”
-“When you come to school tomorrow morning and attempt to sit down in class, something you will find to be close to impossible, I want you to think about the actions that led to paddling I am about to give you”
The simple act of reinforcing everything she is thinking, with a few choice words, can do a lot to add to the overall feeling of dread prior to a paddling. The things she fears the most are not downplayed, they are emphasized, and put right out there for her to consider. When done correctly, the punishment has already started, her heart is racing, she is trembling, and she is fighting back the tears, before the 1st swat ever hits her teen bottom. These are all visible signs that her paddling is going to be quite effective.
There is no denying that look, that is the look of real learning taking place.
During her paddling there are many signs, both visual and auditory, that demonstrate that she is learning a lesson. The 1st one is the look on her face as she receives that 1st swat. If she is just sucking it up and squinting her eyes, chances are that the 1st swat was not effective. The look on her face should be complete and total surprise. It should be a look that shows that she has just been introduced to a level of pain on her bottom that she did not know was possible. A successful spanking in the home environment is most often accomplished as a result of the amount of smacks her teen bottom receives. Parents have the luxury of being able to spank as long as they want until the job is done. In the school environment, principals do not have the same luxury. Often they are limited to as few as 6 swats with the paddle, so every one of them must really count. If that 1st swat does not take her breath away and bring tears to her eyes, then it was just wasted. Principals need to take full advantage of every swat and make sure that the 1st is just as hard as the last. The 1st swat might even be the most important as a result of endorphins and numbness. Her body will fight hard during a severe paddling to combat the pain, and by the end, she will not be feeling as much pain. While the latter swats will help with overall bruising and soreness in the days to come, that 1st one is so very important. He needs to be sure that the 1st swat alone is a punishment all to itself, and the look on her face should reflect the pain and discomfort she is feeling.
Her body fights with the pain and wants to leave the situation. But she still has 9 swats to go and will have to suffer through them all.
During the paddling her body will give signs that a paddling is effective. After a couple of hard swats, there should be visible shaking and trembling. It is common to see her legs shaking uncontrollably. It is a sign her body has gone into flight mode and while she does not have the option of leaving, her body is trying to. It should take every ounce of energy and willpower for her to remain in place. A paddling, in which the young lady does not want to flee, is not effective. If she is able to just stay bent over and handle it all stoically, then a lesson is not being learned. She needs to be fighting with everything in her to remain in place. Some principals handle the dilemma a girls faces during her paddling, of not being able to stay in place, with the threat of extra swats, or even an additional paddling. There are many schools in which not staying in place for the duration of the paddling is covered in the school code of conduct. It may be viewed as “direct disobedience” or “failure to comply with instruction from a school staff member”, but taken by itself is a separate offense. Picture the young lady, getting her bottom paddled black and blue, but keeps standing up during the process, being told when it is all over that she needs to report to his office tomorrow for a paddling for not following directions. As hard as it might be, you can bet she does not move out of position for her paddling the next day.
More than 30 seconds after her last swat and the learning is still visible on her face.
Another sign that a paddling is effective are the sounds a young lady makes as she is being paddled. Almost every girl, especially when paddled in a school office, with only a closed door between her and the hustle and bustle outside the office, will do their best to stay quiet. It is embarrassing enough to have her bottom spanked at school, but she certainly does not want the word to spread about how loud she was, or how hard she cried. But if a principal is really doing his job and giving her a hard paddling with a heavy wooden paddle, after the 1st swat, she will not care about anything other than the pain her bottom is feeling. All girls try to hold it in, but when the burn starts, that is their only focus. A proper school paddling will result in a loud cry of pain from the very beginning. There may be moaning, crying, wailing, and carrying on in all sorts of ways, but if there is not an auditory indicator that she is in pain, then it is not an effective paddling. Sometimes after the 1st swat there is a moment of silence as her breath has literally been taken away. If it is a good paddling, that silence will quickly be replaced with the sounds of learning.
Tears alone are not enough, she needs to be crying like a little girl for a real lesson to be learned.
The primary indicator from the teen girl that she is learning a lesson is tears. Tears alone will never demonstrate that she is learning a lesson; it needs to be active crying. A girl who manages to stay quiet, but has tears running down her face, is fighting the process. She is not giving in to the process and she is not really learning a lesson. She needs to be taken to that place, the place of a naughty little child, in which the she not only produces tears, but she cries hard. There needs to be sniffling, sobbing, and uncontrollable emotion, all of which show she has given in, she has broken down, and most importantly, she is learning. This is what most parents look for when spanking their daughter at home. Once again, they have the luxury of taking as long as they want to get the reaction they are looking for. In a school setting, the only way to assure that this important part of the punishment is reached is with severity of the swats. It can be quite disappointing for an administrator to paddle a young lady, only to find out that once he has reached the maximum amount of swats, that there are only a few tears. It is better to be safe than sorry and apply every swat with as much force as he is able to produce. If he has really taught her a good lesson, the crying will continue for several minutes following her paddling. This is a sign of a job well done.
Still crying uncontrollably and unable to sitdown, shows that real learning took place.
The final indicator of a lesson learned is her not being able to sit very well. Yes, her butt will have gone a little numb over the course of a hard paddling, but there should still be much discomfort when anything touches her bottom. When a 110 lb. high school girl sits in a chair, she is putting about 70% of her body weight onto her bottom. This should cause her to cringe and maybe even cause her to cry harder. If a young lady is able to sit down, without any visual reaction that it is difficult for her, then the paddling was not effective. The goal is for her to not be able to sit down at all, in a few hours, but immediately after the paddling, it should still be hard for her. Her bottom should be black and blue at this point and this will become clear as she struggles to stay in the chair as he finishes up the paperwork.
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